You see yourself one way. The people who know you see something else. Reflect is a quiet way to find out where they meet, and where they don't. So you can grow.
You think you know who you are.
The people closest to you see things you can't. Some of it would surprise you. Some of it would help you. Most of us never get to find out.
Reflect lets you ask, safely. You answer honest questions about yourself. The people you trust answer the same questions about you. Their answers stay anonymous. We show you where you match. We show you where you don't. You decide what to do with it.
First we figured out what to ask. Then we figured out how to talk back. Both are written down and ready.
Four areas of life. Ten things that show up in all of them: are you reliable, are you honest, do people feel safe around you, do you really listen, do you take responsibility. About 48 questions in plain words. Nothing clinical. Nothing scary.
When the answers come in, we don't grade you. We don't shame you. We show you the gap between how you see yourself and how others see you, with care. Four common patterns. Words we use, words we don't. A safety plan for hard answers.
We test the whole thing with five people first. Each one picks a few friends or family to answer honestly about them. We compare answers. We write them a short, kind report. Then we ask the only question that matters: did this change anything for you?
We build the forms. We ask five people if they want in. They pick their friends.
Each person answers the questions about themselves. Then their friends get a code.
Friends answer the same questions about you. They stay anonymous. No names attached.
The spreadsheet finds the gaps. The patterns. We write a short, kind report for each person.
Reports go out. We ask: did anything in this change how you want to show up next week?
Some of these we can answer now. Some of them only the first five users can answer for us.